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When someone you care about experiences stillbirth, knowing what to say or do can feel overwhelming, especially when you're processing your own grief for the baby you have lost as grandparent, family member, sibling, or colleague.
It can feel frightening to worry about saying or doing the wrong thing. However, silence can often feel more painful than imperfect words. A simple acknowledgement, offered with sincerity and care, can mean more than you realise.
Taking the time to understand what your loved one may be experiencing is a powerful first step. You are not there to fix their pain, because grief cannot be solved. Your role is to listen, to acknowledge their baby, and to offer steady, compassionate support. Grief looks different for everyone. Rather than assuming what they may need, one of the most meaningful questions you can ask is, “How can I support you right now?” This invites them to guide you in a way that respects their individual experience. Your presence matters more than perfect words. A message, a meal, remembering important dates, or simply sitting beside them can make a profound difference. Small, thoughtful gestures often carry lasting impact during times of deep grief.